Going through your boyfriend’s or husband’s phone could be the beginning of the end of your hard built relationship. This is because of a number of reasons:
It is against privacy: Even if you are married or love each other, going through your boyfriend’s phone without his permission is infringing on his privacy. This is because he has already told you what you need to know. Phones also have passwords and when you steal his password to spy on his chats, you are answerable to the new ICT Law.
It is disrespectful: When you check his chats with his friends, what do you want? Do you have any shares with the other friends he has? He will feel disrespected because it clearly shows that you don’t trust him and you are taking him for a liar. This is when he will start deleting chats with his friends and will introduce a password to his phone.
You will get what you want: It is simple, “seek and you shall find”. You are checking his phone probably to find out if he is flirting with other girls. You will find it and you will be hurt for no reason. Sometimes men talk to girls randomly with no intention of taking them as their girlfriends since they are hooked to you and they mean it. You will break up: When you frequently check his phone and he discovers, he will lock it. This will breed mistrust in your relationship. Without trust, the next thing that follows is a breakup. This will solely be blamed on one person who did not learn to respect the privacy of her boyfriend hence ruining a what would have been a lasting relationship.