It always takes time and experience for one to decide on whom to marry. Couples have to understand each other deeper and get to know much more about each other before walking down the aisle. Divorce cases have been 'flooding ' in the courts. Cases of spouses killing each other have been the order of the day. Here are four experiences a couple should go through before getting married so as to avoid marital breakdown in the future.
1. Sex Life
The key to a perfect sex life is communication. Sex is an important aspect of marriage and the couple should discuss how often they should have sex and the type of marriage they are going to. Getting married does not mean that one should have only one sexual partner depending on different religions, beliefs and personal feelings. Couples should, therefore, agree on their sexual life.
2. Live together
Living together before getting married is important. The couple should be able to understand each other well. Daily discussions and privacy will lead to in-depth conversations about their childhood, education and the families' backgrounds. Understanding each other's weaknesses and strengths will lead to strong marriage.
3. Family goals
As a couple, you should discuss the number of children you are going to have. You should discuss your Carrier paths since careers have a lot to do with the family is going to live, what will be the source of income to the family and everyone's contributions to the family's source of income and expenditures.