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Have you ever considered dating a guy with children? Most women avoid such men because they don't want the responsibility of looking after the children. 

Here are some tips on how to sustain and date a guy who already has kids,

First things will always come first and you need to get conversant with that. His kids come first before you did and most of the times he will always put his kids first before you. You should get into terms with the idea that his kids are also a priority in his life just the way you are.

His ex will always be in his life.This is the tough truth that you have to accept.This is the mother of his kids and she is bound o be around him sometimes and you need to accept that. He will keep contact with her just in case of anything that is related to the kids.You should try and be friends with his ex rather than make an enemy because of your jealousy.You need to trust in him.

You need to be patient with his kids.If you ever get to interact with them, you should learn to accommodate them in your life and also note that you are not their mother and it will take them time to adapt to the new change in their life.Be nice to them always.