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Keys to a good sex life are not as complicated as we may think. If anything it involves understanding our partner's likes and dislikes. A lot of time we may tend to worry primarily on our own pleasure. Here are a few tips to 'spicen' up your sex life:
Engage in after play
Have you finished with the main event? Now is the best time engage in foreplay favorites. Since you are already aroused, you may find that specific moves can even more ecstatic. Don't be afraid to try something new and remember there's no pressure, its all for fun.
Start a slow burn
What ever thoughts you may have towards 'sexting', it can really be quite fun if you know how. The trick is to leave out words that would make you blush and stick to inside jokes. Use of emoji's can help set the mood for when you finally get together.
Re-Do your finest moments
Fantasy theoretically sounds great but practically can be quite complicated. Perhaps a play by play of some of your hottest moments could 'spicen' things up. You’ve had them before, so who says you can’t have them again?
Share what turns you on
Communicating what you like and don't like can be instructional and informative as you get to know each other's bodies. If he's doing something you like, say so rather than relying on ambiguous gestures or noises. And if it's something you're not into, communicate that or guide him in a new direction.