Man and lady. [Photo/Zumi]Telling your spouse I love you in a relationship can be a really big deal. You don't want to say it unless you're sure that it's the right thing to do. Most ladies would prefer for the man to say the words. But if you are a brave woman here a some tips to say the word before he does:Think about his thoughts.
Before you decide to tell him you love him try and see how he reacts to the word. He might be the type of guy who likes dating for a while before he actually utters the word. In such cases its better to wait before breaking the news. But if he likes throwing the word out there then there is your chance to say the i love you word.Consider the consequences.
Even if you know that he is crazy about you you might want to think about the consequences of saying the word. Will you burst into tears if he responds back with a thank you? If yes you have to rethink your decision and just wait for him to say it.Make sure you are alone.
When you decide to pour your heart out to him make sure you are alone. This is to help with the uncertain answer you might get and to avoid any embarrassments from people around. Also to give you the privacy you need to express yourself.Create confidence
Its not easy to tell someone that you love them so if you choose to do it you should show confidence .You need to show them that you mean it.That means you can't take it back when they don't respond.Know who he is.
Try and know the guy you are dealing with before you say the words. Is he the type of guy who is not ready for commitments? ls he not comfortable whenever you try to get too close? If that box checks right then its not yet time to declare your love.Pay attention to his actions.
When someone is inlove with you its really easy to know. They don't have to say the words. If he Does not reply with the i love you back you just need to wait till he is ready.