In the first few days of dating, everything is usually exciting and you both cannot wait to hang out with each other. Learning and understanding each other is all amazing until both of you know each other so well. After that phase, it is normal to start getting a little bored with each other.
If you notice that your boyfriend has changed and you no longer enjoy his company, it could be that he has turned into a boring boyfriend for whatever reasons. But what do you do when your boyfriend is ever boring yet you still love him and do not want to bring the relationship to an end?
Here are top five tips to enable you to deal with a boring boyfriend;
Think about it
Before confronting him about the whole issue, think deeply about what could be the cause of his boredom. Examine yourself and see if you could be the source of his boredom. If you suspect that you might be doing something that makes him bored, try and change then see if he will change.
Confront him
If you notice that he is not changing, take the bull by its horns and ask him what the problem could be. Communication is the only way that you two can solve your issues. Let him speak up about whatever makes him bored so that the two of you can work on it.
Do new things together
If he is bored, you definitely will be bored. Try and discover new things that both of you can do together to cheer him up. If you have been indoors for too long, try taking a walk outside or some outdoor game.
Do what he loves together
This is another way to cheer up your boring boyfriend. Regardless of how boring he might be, there must be something that he loves doing. If he loves swimming, accompany him and see if he likes it.
Reduce your time together
Maybe he is the type who prefers to be alone most of the time and he gets bored seeing you every now and then. If you have been seeing him on a daily basis, try and reduce it to probably thrice a week and see if it does any good.