Signs your man is abusive. [Photo/pinterest]
Ending up with a hostile man presents as many problems as there are stars in the sky. It presents an emotional, psychological and physical danger to be involved with someone who could so easily be pushed to acts of aggression. Be attentive to his tone. It's easy for him to lie but it's hard to fake his tone. Body language often gets away from us no matter how hard we try. He can often have a tone to denote anger, displeasure or disgust when the moment doesn't call for it. Even if they agree to something, the reluctance in their voice is telling. Doesn't matter how, where or by whom you were raised, harsh words aren't a normal way to communicate. Pay attention to moments when they can forget to 'act' and the hostility jumps out. They use words that are harsh even when the situation doesn't come close. It might be one word or a statement. Don't ignore that! Even if you don't confront him about it, take note and have it in the bank. Just because you made a mistake or did something wrong doesn't mean he should be rude to you. No matter how much he seems to justify it, don't let him convince you that you deserve to be spoken to rudely or harshly. Hostile gestures is something you don't want to make light of. If he shoved you, pulled you roughly, threw something at you, it's already a step too far. Just because you didn't get physically hurt doesn't mean that it wasn't wrong. The idea is, the little things speak volumes. Even diseases can start off with mild signs and symptoms. Don't end up with a hostile man for it is a click away from physical, emotional and verbal abuse.