There's nothing that says hello darling better than a bouquet of red roses. Their exquisite scent brings a smile on any other ladies face. A teddy bear also warms the heart of a lady and a bar of chocolate gets them in the right mood for a romantic date. That is how to capture the ladies old soul which the 21st century is quickly facing off.

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Girls no longer want a gentleman who treats them like a lady. They often prefer arrogant dudes who treat them like trash. Rude talk apparently turns them on and being disrespected has become their portion. Girls no longer want to be called beautiful or sweetheart. Labels like my bitch or my hoe will get you a girlfriend much faster. They choose jerks over men because to them, a real man is the one who is rude, insensitive and knows the art of heartbreak.

A guy who comes over to a lady and does a proper introduction with a good handshake is the ideal and perfect guy. In addition, he makes sure a lady gets home safe and keeps her updated with texts and calls as they build a relationship. They go further to take a lady to see his home, not his house. Home is your family and a house is your private crib. Ladies want a guy who is ready to ask her parents for permission to court her and when the time is right also ask her parents for a hand in marriage.