This is for the ladies. What a man wants and what you want is very different. Even what you want him to want is quite different.
What actually matters is for you to understand what really motivates him, that way you stand a much better chance of getting along with the one in your life. And most of men wants are pretty predictable.
In the fantasy department, he prefers a flirty yellow yellow girl. Of course, a really flashy car will be high up on his list too, and all the usual digital delights.
Closely followed by a password controlled remote for the TV, so only he can use it.
Loads of beer of course, and for you to be really keen to do all the cooking and cleaning for him... While this seems a little fantastic it is pretty much the truth.
And of course, a man would be a lot happier taking risks than you are. He'd also like to be known to be rich, funny and sexy!
He wants to be powerful, make things happen, independent, to be able to look after you, meet all your needs and see to it that you’re safe and happy.
Above all, he needs you to be proud of him, whether for his exploits at work, on the soccer pitch or fixing the car. He wants to be proud of you, too. To be able to boast about you. Whether it’s for the way you carry yourself or just hanging out with you.
He wants to know he can share his most embarrassing weaknesses and secrets with you. Dress up for him sometimes. Your most evil stilettos. Your slinkiest skirt.
Men love it when they get to have the woman they’ve always wanted – even if for only one night!
He wants to be listened to without being criticised. He wants you to be grateful if he buys you flowers – even if they’ve obviously been bought on the street and are dying fast.
Hope you’re not too disappointed! Men’s wants are really quite sweet – and generally pretty harmless. So after you’ve stopped laughing, try throwing a few of your inhibitions out of the window and going along with some of them now and again