A couple on a date.[Photo/pinterest]
As a woman, it is normally exciting to be finally noticed by someone, especially if he is the kind of person you like. Having waited long for this opportunity, it is easy to jump in with both legs and hurt yourself. One needs to enter into a relationship cautiously one leg at a time to avoid disappointment.
Therefore, there are some rules of engagement in the dating game, which you should know. It is normally advisable not to let a man know where you stay so soon neither allow them to drop you home or pick you up unless of course, you are living with somebody like your parents.
Similarly, it is advisable not to go over at their place before you really get to know each other. A guy asking you to come for a date over at his place on your first or second date is rather suspicious. Why would he want you to go over to his place? Is he up to some mischief or does he not want to be seen with you in public? What if he rapes you? There have been cases of women who were raped on a date.
When you are at his place he has the home ground advantage, you are at their mercy; and anything he asks for or demands is easy for you to give in to. After all, you went to his place, he didn’t drag you there. The problem with some women is that they have no standards at all and when it comes to dating, they are caught flat-footed. You need to have standards such as you would only have sex after marriage.
Men will only treat you the way you treat yourself. So, play hard to get, take time to get to know this guy before agreeing to visit him.