A sobbing girlfriend. [Photo/wp.com]
You have tried everything you can to make him happy. You hve given him more of your time and your girlfriends are wondering why you keep blowing them off. Buying gifts sounded like a solution, but it didn't work either.
So, you keep asking yourself what could be wrong with you. Wrong question, 'What's wrong with him?' You and anything you do never seems to be enough! No human can claim perfection. An even deeper sense of our human nature is that we don't always know when we do wrong. If you have done him wrong, he has an obligation to tell you. Making you leap over and over trying to figure out what you did wrong is pure torture. If he doesn't find you enough today, I can promise you that you won't be enough tomorrow either. A man either finds you worthy or not. There is nothing that you can do to make him value you more. It's one of those things that are in the eyes of the beholder. Don't stress yourself anymore, if he treats you like you're not good enough, believe him. Stop 'changing' yourself to try to fit his desires. If he doesn't appreciate you the way you are, you need to walk. He has to first love you as you are then you can both lovingly work on your weaknesses. Don't wake up one morning and not recognize the woman in the mirror. All because what was wrong with someone else made you try to mold, fix, rectify and change yourself. You could do every right and still fail to please him.