It is hard to stay with someone who does not pay attention.[Photo/besthealthmag.ca] Relationship issues never cease. Two different people trying to find common ground each day is no easy task. Friction is just part of the dating journey. But sometimes things get out of hand and you feel that the relationship is more conflict than friendship. When do you say it is too much?
One of the most dangerous things in a relationship is lack of growth. A couple should individually keep working on themselves so it even gets easier to get better as a couple. Someone who does not improve each day actually slows you down. You do not even have to break-up, you naturally grow apart. Some are deep in touch when they start off. However, if one is investing more in being a better person and the other is dormant, they drift apart. It is hard to solve problems with someone who does not listen. Things never seem to take off the ground. Revisiting the same issue countless times is bound to tire even the most patient among us. A lot of important matters are left hanging and unresolved. Progress is derailed. A relationship cannot exist without mutual respect. When someone is constantly losing respect for you, it can only get worse. If one cannot treat you with a sense of dignity and it just keeps getting worse, you need to look out for yourself. At the end of it all, it is about your happiness. If you are not delighted to be there, then you need to question everything about the relationship.