Arguments are a common thing almost in every relationship.
They are there and will continue existing, that's a fact.
Though this is true, it is important and would be better off if we kept our arguments to the minimum especially when within our control.
Partners normally blame each other whenever certain things aren't going right in the relationship, which can even lead to break up.
Of course, it is very normal to have conflicts that would at times escalate to arguments but always try not to fall prey to the blame game especially where small and inconsequential issues are concerned.
This back and forth blame in most cases make partners sound ridiculous particularly when they argue persistently for a long time.
Actually, no need to argue just because you have conditioned yourself to believe that you are always right while others are to blame.I understand this is human tendency to get defensive when we are attacked.
But have you ever thought about the implication this behaviour has on your partner and relationship at large?
Atimes peace is better than being right.
In this case, why don't you focus on creating happy moments in your relationship rather than concentrating your energy on throwing blames back and forth?
It is time you focused more on what builds your relationship rather than what creates division.
If possible take the blame and never react to the heat of the moment.
Later on, when emotions have cooled down you can find a way of solving your issues peacefully and amicably.
So kindly stop blame games and save your relationship.