[Photo/thevoiceonline.com]Most times when someone is giving you advice with regards to love and relationships, they often tell you to follow your heart. Hower, most of us let our hearts control us instead and we end up doing a lot of mistakes.

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Before we realize it, we are in too deep and getting out of that whole is not something easy.Here a few mistakes that we end up doing when the heart takes the lead,

Blinding our selves from actions and paying attention to words.They say one should always mean what they say whenever they speak it out and when it comes to a relationship, we hear them and believe that their actions will match this.Most of us neglect the fact that one is not acting accordingly to what they promise.We pay more attention to the sweet words that hear rather than watch and see if one lives to their promises.When we focus on words,we blind ourselves to actions which is not right.

Getting caught up in the moment.Someone can make you feel important and like you are the only one when in fact its the opposite.Being stuck in the moment will cost you your time, happiness, friends and even family.You will always want to be with that person and you end up forgetting that you have a life outside that relationship.Its important to let your mind take the lead as much as you follow your heart.