A lady playing games on her man's phone. [Photo/ nation.co.ke]
Many people have always believed that snooping through other people’s phones is a bad idea.
Of course, it is bad.
However, going through your lover's phones has never been, and will never be infringing their right of privacy.
It is gaining their trust, as there is no privacy between lovers right?
To be honest, if you cannot openly check your partner's phone in front of them I don’t know what kind of relationship that is.
Here are reasons you should always to check your partner’s phones:
It shows both of you can trust each other
Listen here people, a relationship without love, peace, and trust is nothing.
Most importantly, there is nothing important in a relationship more than trust.
Love is built on trust.
Being free with your lover’s phone shows you two trust each other.
It’s the best way to cancel out all assumptions
There is nothing that kills relationships fast more than assumptions.
Look you will assume something about your partner and believe it to be true.
But once you have freedom with their phones, you will be able to clear any doubts.
Makes cheating hard
There is nothing that hurts more in a relationship more than a cheating partner.
But when you are free with your partner’s phone, it makes it super hard for any chances of cheating.
This makes it hard for cheating partners as they will not know how to hide it.
You will always be in the know
You have the right to know what is going on in your partner’s life.
The best way to know this is through going through their phones.
Apart from him/her telling you about it, you can also know through people he/she talks to through their phone.
Because why not?
Look, my friends, what is wrong with me going through my lovers’ phone?
I mean doesn’t it mean there are things between us that we can’t do together?
If you love them, there should never be anything between you that you can never share.