Men are found of organizing sexual intercourse with their partner without their consent in the name of surprise.
As much as almost everyone loves a surprise, surprise sex has its own disadvantages that include:
Sexual assault
With sex as a surprise, your partner may not be willing to indulge in the activity due to her own reasons including moods. Involving your partner when she is not willing leads to sexual assault where rape can be a harsh word to describe that.
Waste of money
One person is planning to have sex with the other person who is not aware, you have all the plans to book a room and buy a condom. But when the partner shows up, she did not have that in mind and adamantly refuses. You will not be refunded your money because you never used the room.
Breakups
Men are sexually driven and ‘denying’ them their conjugal right anytime they want raises a question which can lead to misunderstandings and even break up.
Losing interest on the way
Since the lady was not psychologically prepared, she might not be able to reach the peak of her ultimate pleasure leading to frustration and empty experience. And all of a sudden, she will be there like a dead corpse waiting for you to finish what you are doing.
STIs and unplanned pregnancies.
Due to lack of preparations such us having condoms, the partner risk contracting STIs if they indulge in sex without protection