A couple in love. Photo/Kamdora
Having a boyfriend for a best friend only points out the fact that you have a boring sex life and zero friends. You need that separate equation for a bestie and a lover to be sane and happy.Having your boyfriend as your best friend makes you loose any sense of fashion in you. This means you will never want to dress up for him because you really don’t care about his judgment because he is your best friend. You really don’t have to impress him at all.Making him do girl stuff with you- the good thing about having a best friend is the fact that you can do all sorts of girl staff like paint your nails, go shopping, gossip etc. . . But the worst thing is turning your boyfriend into a girl that reasoning like a man and doing man staff becomes a serious problem for him. And that’s when you start saying that you need him to be more manly.Being open with your boyfriend in the right way. With a bestie it’s not that hard to be honest but the problem comes in when you want to talk about relationship issues affecting your relationship. It will be hard for your boyfriend to take you seriously since he sees you as a best friend too and that it will be easy for you to understand.Boring sex life. When your boyfriend is your best friend he becomes less attractive to you. This is because you see him every day as your friend and boyfriend. So instead of you having the thought of taking his clothes off you actually have the thought of telling him those clothes don’t match?